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Andie Fox

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Andie Fox

Raising a teenager is scary. Don’t be daunted and embrace the hard work | Andie Fox9 January 2022 · Updated 10 January 2022

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“Reaching acceptance – that I will have to go through this and do the hard work involved – is the only way for me to get to the other side.”
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Patty Wipfler

Patty Wipfler

Supporting our Teenage Children21 August 2013 · Updated 16 September 2020

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“In order to build new bridges between our children and ourselves, we have to learn to stay thoughtful and supportive through the worst of their feelings about us. We have to keep letting them know that, no matter how they feel about us, we love them and want their lives…”
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Tamekia Reece

Tamekia Reece

10 Things Parents of Well-Adjusted Teens Do Differently28 April 2026

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“If you step back and become a sounding board to let your teen work through things, it builds their independence and problem-solving skills.”
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Becky Mansfield

Becky Mansfield

Things no one tells you about parenting a teenage girl - Your Modern Family6 July 2021

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“In the end, raising teenage daughters (well- teenagers, in general) is about connection, trust, and respect. Teen girls have a lot to say – about everything. They have opinions that they want you to hear. They feel things very deeply and intensely – and they want you to understand why.”
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Ivy

Ivy

Raising Successful Teens: Essential Tips for Parents in the Formative YearsAug 29, 2021

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“When working to raise successful children, there will always be various hurdles to overcome. However, by following these tips for how to raise successful children from an early age, you can help to encourage your teen to be the best they can be throughout their teenage years and beyond.”
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Alisa Crossfield

Alisa Crossfield

Five Important Tips for Raising Teenagers as a Single Parent24 April 2023

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“Through my own experience as a single parent, I now tell clients (and myself) repeatedly about self-validation as my number one tool for managing this role.”
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Emma Johnson

Emma Johnson

Hey single mom— Do you tell your son he’s the man of the house? 16 tips for raising sons12 May 2022

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“If you have found your family slipping into “You’re the man of the house,” here is what you can do: Stop trying to do it all, because no one can do it all. People are not meant to be autonomous robotrons.”
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Wendy Gunn

Wendy Gunn

Powerful Secrets How To Parent Teen and Young Adult Children|Raising Godly Kids|Your Home For God27 February 2020

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“Keep your mouth shut. Pray. If you have done your job in training, they already know exactly what you’re going to say anyway. You don’t have to say it again! They could probably quote it verbatim! Trust that God is at work in your teen or young adult children.”
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Dr. Paul Chappell

Dr. Paul Chappell

10 Biblical Principles for Raising Godly Teenagers29 April 2025

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“Raising godly teens is a sacred stewardship, and these ten principles provide a biblical framework—not a formula—to guide you in pointing them to Christ.”
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Amelia Wilson

9 Proven Strategies for Happily Raising Teens17 October 2025

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“To allow for my kids’ growing independence while recognizing their need for firm boundaries, I’ve found it helpful to show them I respect their thoughts and feelings by treating difficult discussions as two-way conversations and asking for their perspectives before explaining my view.”
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Maggie

Raising Adolescents - Maggie Dent9 February 2016 · Updated 10 December 2025

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“One of the key things I emphasise in all my work around adolescents, is the importance of safe adult allies, or “lighthouses” — safe guides who are not their parents who help our teens through the turbulence of adolescence.”
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Marika Lindholm Ph.D.

10 Rules for Living With a Teenage Daughter10 May 2018

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“Enjoy the wonderful times with your daughter, and remember that even in the tough moments, you’re helping her become a confident woman whose company you will enjoy for many years to come.”
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Sarah Ockwell-Smith

How to Raise a Teen4 June 2024 · Updated 5 July 2024

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“What I am saying, is that the best way through these years is to work with your teens, to support them, guide them and to understand them, rather than working against them, as so much parenting advice suggests.”
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Alex

Healthy Food for Teenagers: A Parent's Guide to Easy, Balanced Meals10 July 2026

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“While teens begin making more of their own food choices, parents and caregivers continue to play a powerful role in shaping the home environment, modelling habits, and fostering a positive relationship with food.”
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Celeste Ferreira

How to Raise a Teen—the Right Way1 March 2016 · Updated 27 January 2026

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“To nurture a healthy parent-teen relationship, she advises, communicate early and often, especially about uncomfortable coming-of-age topics. Many parents believe teens have already heard it all, but research shows that children make the healthiest decisions about sex and substance use when they hear messages from their parents.”
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Callum Creed

Parenting Tips for Teenagers (13-17 Years Old)18 May 2024 · Updated 24 May 2024

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“A top parenting tip for 14-year-olds is to do whatever you can to keep the dialogue open and judgment-free. Whether it’s a casual chat at dinner or a heart-to-heart during a car ride, let them know you’re always there to listen.”
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Michelle Mekky

4 Lessons I Learned from Raising Teenagers - Mekky Media16 March 2020 · Updated 15 November 2023

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“I’m trying to raise good people, and those are the moments I choose to push them. I think these moments are different for every parent, but you have to decide what hill you’re willing to die on, and stick to the boundaries you establish.”
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Nancy Lovering

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10 Tips for Raising Resilient, Well-Rounded Teens17 May 2016 · Updated 9 August 2022

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“You can support them with patience, active listening, and clear boundaries. They can benefit from the natural consequences of some mistakes as they learn resilience, with you in their corner to help them through each day.”
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Nancy Reynolds

Raising a Strong-Willed Teen: How to Survive and Help Them Thrive (Without Breaking Their Spirit) - Raising Teens Today26 June 2023

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“What I needed to do was accept and embrace who she was, allow her to express her own individuality, and guide and teach her (the best I could) to use those wonderful inherent traits in a more productive (and respectful) way so she could actually do amazing things in this…”
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Samareh Hill MD

A Healthy Weight and Body Image for Teenage Girls

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“No one’s body is perfect but yours is perfect for you. You are enough just as you are.”
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Carl E Pickhardt Ph.D.

The Challenge of Parenting a Strong-willed Adolescent23 July 2018

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“When a child and adolescent are innately willful, I believe the job of the parent is to teach the girl or boy how to constructively manage this demanding temperamental hand that they're been dealt.”
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Marisa Michael

Nutrition for Teen Climbers - Nutrition for Climbers13 May 2020

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“Help your child by teaching them how to prepare nutrient dense snacks in advance that are easy to grab and go. Pack a variety of vitamins and minerals into hand held snacks that will aid in the development of your growing teen.”
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Garrett Higbee

Parenting Angry Teens - Association of Certified Biblical Counselors

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“We can create a safe, loving, and gospel-centered home and relationship with them. It’s not easy because they will test it like crazy. They may even act like they reject it.”
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Mark Gregston

Help For Single Parents With Teenagers - Parenting Today's Teens3 February 2011

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“There aren’t any easy answers. There isn’t a magic verse of Scripture that will fix all your problems. There isn’t one “cure all” that will remove all of the challenges that a single parent faces.”
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Amy Feld

Teenage Daughter Keeps Losing Friends in Her School - The Friendship Blog24 September 2025

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“Your daughter needs to seek out friends who are secure in their sense of self and don’t follow the herd. I’m not suggesting she leave her friends behind, only that she expand her social circle to include more friends and acquaintances.”
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Kari Kampakis

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“One challenge of raising teenagers is teaching emotional regulation. As Dr. Lisa Damour says, teenagers often have the right feeling on the wrong scale. They need help bringing their feelings down to size.”
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